The major constraints to goal accomplishment are fear and doubt. The fear of
failure, the fear of poverty, the fear of rejection. Do you know how many times
a failure tries to accomplish a goal before he gives up? Less than one attempt.
The moment a failure thought of a goal to achieve before he map out strategies
to
accomplish it, fear set in and he begins to think about it and the next
thing that crops up is "I CAN'T". The phrase "I can't" is a
deadly word that has placed embargo on so many destinies. When a man says 'I
CAN'T', he shut the door to idealization, innovation and possibility. I
challenge you today, to delete every ‘I CAN'T’ in your mind and see
possibilities.
Another constraint to goal accomplishment is 'doubt'. When a man doubts his
potential to accomplish a goal. When a man compare himself to another man and
sees himself less qualified. A doubter experience self-defeat.
To overcome fear and doubt you need to develop "courage and
confidence" you need courage to act amidst your fear, see those challenges
coming your way as you journey to your goal and plan ahead strategies you will
adopt to overcome those challenges. The road to success is the roughest; it
takes a man with a desire to succeed to walk through undefeated. You need
confidence to overcome your doubt. Then how do you acquire courage and
confidence? It is through knowledge and skill acquisition. The more knowledge
and skill you acquire about what you want to achieve, the more your courage and
confidence level develop.
How do you acquire knowledge and skill? Identify men/women who have achieved
what you set out to accomplish and learn from them. If a child can learn how to
walk then, you can also learn how to succeed. If you want to get to the top of
your career, you need to walk, dress, reason, relate and talk the way the
people at the top do and if you consistently do these, you will soon start
earning what they earn at the TOP.
Fear and Doubt comes from your belief. The law of belief states ' what a man
belief with conviction, becomes his reality'. The question is what do you believe?
Because the reality is, no man was born with belief, we learn belief from
associates, experience etc and the more we ponder on it then, it becomes a part
of us and yield the fruit as expected. If what you belief is positive, the
result you get becomes positive and if it is negative, you get same result.
Finally live a life full of courage and confidence overcoming fear and doubt
ALWAYS!!!.
Author: Abiodun Adeyemo.
Author: Abiodun Adeyemo.
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